What is cognitive dissonance in our children and what is the outcome? Natural learning ability and reading behaviors.

Cognitive dissonance in our children.

I was working with a girl in the 5th grade and noticed that she could readily understand a passage when I read it to her. Yet, when she went to read, she read very very slowly, and with tension, as in her breathing was uneven, and her body swayed back and forth.

How can a person, understand fluid words more readily than reading, when reading is simply, like reading a musical score, putting the units as the notes as the letters into a sound and listening and forming the sounds into a cohesive form, as an form of information that is simply an idea, or the creation of a picture about something done with words?

And this can become something within, as a belief, that then can be used to direct, thus what is sounded as formed as words, must be very very clear and something that gives direction in ways that create no harm. Something that does not tell the whole story, and that is used by a child, for example, must be the real story, or the information is harmful because it leads the child into situations that are not what leads to the full potential of the child.

So, this child who was reading very slowly and with a stress revealing itself in her physical behaviors, who could at the same time respond with a flow of words she heard, says something about the information she is using within to decipher the simple notes/letters of a graph of information!

This means that as she uses herself, as what is drawn out, and used to decipher the graph that represents the sounds that are things that represent the world around us, this inner measure is not flowing with ease. Yet, this girl can process words in other contexts.

Somehow, that information within , as what has accumulated in her cognitive map, is not serving her well. It is somehow dissonant, and as such, difficult to process - these ‘ notes that graph’ a picture as the words, as this is what words are, things that paint a picture, that reflect the world around us.

Already, this child is having a disconnect while processing a sound that is a reflection of experience, and all of our experiences are related to our presence here on a physical world,  I mean, what is metaphor built of?

if one takes the time to look, one can actually see this cognitive dissonance, it moves like molasses ( my metaphor!) . It is visible in the movement of the child, as the heavier lacking-ease in breathing and the body moving in a restless way. It is visible in the very very slow processing of the information, as the rhythm of the child, as their information/communication speed begins to be filled with gaps, and the speaking is more of a ‘ looking at the inner information’ and assessing it, trying to make sense of it metaphysically. Is this different from when a child learns to crawl and walk? Is this the natural learning ability of the child, as children who can rapidly learn languages when they are young, or is this the dissonance being sorted through that is slowing the child down?

This means that the cognitive measure of the child is not clear. And, because of our system that moves at a pace that is a rigidity, within the guise of giving structure, this structure is really something that is disturbing the child’s natural processing ability and clogging it up, Some would call this a false positive. The structure of our public schools sounds good, yet it does not consider the ability of a natural learning ability to process and order and sense patterns, instead it imposes an order that is limited and actually interrupts the child, filling up their cognition with information they do not have time and opportunity to experience and place into some kind of common sense order, hence the outcome is cognitive dissonance. Which, is why children who are exposed to more words, and more opportunities to do better in school. Yet, many, because of economics, cannot have such experiences. And, the parents do not understand this, or take the time to understand this- and it is the responsibility of the parents to understand this, as they would have wanted this for themselves. And, if one listens to many adults, their stories are about how someone else did not do this or did not do that, with a few realizing that they themselves did not realize this or did not realize that- for example. Yet, we must each realize that only we, our ‘ self’s’ can correct/form/build what we are within. We determine what we accept and allow. And, we do realize this at a certain point in our lives?

Hence, in relation to the child I discussed earlier; her cognitive information is not consonant with reality. And because of this, the child struggles with processing words as information that is a graph of the practice of living on a symbiotic physical reality as that which is all around us, as the school, and the roads etc.etc. that are the things that are used to build metaphors. Our within is not equal to the without. Young children learn so rapidly because they remain within seeing directly before a cognition is filled with a mis-measure that lacks the real story.

One can notice that one begins to move as a set body of information, because reading a different measure of information becomes more and more difficult as we get older. Do we realize we start to race as that in-formation and become the habit of and as it?  Hence, it is easy to see how we are in separation from reality.

And, as scientists are discovering, our DNA holds memories from our parents, which we have always known, or phrases such as ‘ the sins of the fathers’ or ‘ the apple never falls far from the tree’ would not exist. 

So, how can we solve this problem? How can we rebuild the very fabric of our cognition to retain a direct seeing ability and use our imaginations in ways that help us direct ourselves here, and send information to future generations that is clean and clear and as such can build a world where our children do not spend their lives sorting out cognitive dissonance? How do we build sound minds,that use the full potential of what we are, where we are balanced within to the without to live full lives? How do we end this suffering in children where they lose their stability inherent in their breathing becoming unstable and uneasy? Is this not what you would have wanted for yourself? Is this not what is development of the full processing ability of the child?

We must begin to understand that the information around us, through media, and the memory of adults composed of generations of information that is not the real story of living,has compounded in our genes, and into systems that are trying to order, yet not understanding this, and clearing this up. We have a system that is trying to put out the fires of this, instead of addressing the starting point that is a point of separation from a natural common sense, as this common sense is how that child learns to crawl and walk, and process other languages with a rapid ease.

No one can do this for each of us as individuals. No one can go into you, and correct this foundation. The only person/point of correction is you. The point on the ground as the individual, is the only place of correction as no one else can be inside that cognition that is a reflection of the measure of one’s experience and information accepted and allowed. Saying that what is within as a belief, is just this, speaking a measure. Speaking a measure is not a movement of change or reformation. Only the individual can change the form, that is what informs and eventually directs. We each, are responsible for what is within us. And parents are responsible for what informs the child because they are who spend the most time with the child.

If we cannot process information with ease, and/or we have a hard time ordering ourselves in reality as visible actions that get things done, then our cognition is not grounded and clear. we end up having problems processing information and getting things done. the moment we move into justification as blame and spite, we are believing that our cognition is more than that original ( originating point) starting point that was able to sense space and move our physical bodies in ways that we learned to crawl and to walk and to talk. 

The solution is to rebuild our cognition to be of a sound measure, where the words as the units, as the notes reflecting the graph of life as the physical world we are here working with,  are in sync, in order- where the words are the structural means of communication and self direction so that the child realizes they can learn/become aware in clear and efficient ways. This is building a child that lives at ease with this world. And this is what we all want/seek.

This is forming life. It is the most important thing a parent, a school, a community can do for a child because this is what determines the future of life on earth. And, it is what each of us would have wanted for ourselves.

I would suggest rebuilding your cognition and making sure that the cognition of your child is sound. Thankfully, the tool is here. It is Techno Tutor. Let’s get this done, it is what we would have wanted for ourselves. Slow down and read something other than a habituated form of information, realize that you can change, as this is the very ability of you as life- that rapid ability to learn new languages is right there under all that information that is creating a cognitive dissonance from who you really are as life. Take that which is good and does no harm, and align yourself to the purpose of building a world that functions with ease, and the joy that is there buried under a chaos of information that creates a cognitive dissonance through limitation, stagnating you from the full potential that can change and reform as your self within, as this is the stuff of creation.

                                           Inherent in the word ' genetics' is the sound ' generation.' 

What are you educing with your presence?

If one as a human is born sensing the world around them, to the point where within weeks they begin to imitate a smile, what does this tell us about the sensuality of a human being that is in essence an organic robot?

It tells us that the human baby is collecting and imitating data, the measure of the world around them. 

What happens when that measure is not the real story? What happens when that data is a measure of a limited story, to serve the victor? The one who had the means, to stand on the stage of presentation? Is not that act of standing on a stage, a raised platform, in itself something that can occupy the sensory skill of a human being, that child that imitates everything it encounters? I mean, is this not what feral children are doing and being? And, are not those with more exposure and opportunity to the forms in this world, are they not more flexible than most? Are they not more able to change? Does this not mean that they have the data/measure exposure to focus upon? Is this not like a musician that has had exposure to the notes? It is not any different. And it is the key.

Would this not mean that an exposure, that is limited ( like television) create a human being with a set of data that blinds them from seeing directly and acting responsibly? Thus, it is not the machine, because the machine is a great sensor, it is the information within the machine that is creating the lack. Thus, what is informed can change. Our sciences tell us that we can build neurons through out life, which means we can rebuild ourselves at any point in life. I mean, our cells replace themselves in the body every seven years!

If this is not understood, this which is obvious, what are the manifested behaviors of lack, and how do they play out? Where do we see them in the every day? How do they exhibit themselves in our children?

Does punishing forced data in a child solve the self destructive behavior? No. Would limited data, as lack of exposure, create a form of depression of that which is educed into form/data/measure  manifest because the data did not give a clear direction for the machine to move as? Are we not this, we humans, when we realize that we are what we think about, our thoughts the reflection of our inner data/measure/experience? In this, depression is a suppression into a limited in-formation of data/exposure/experience/opportunity. The consequence of this is behaviors of frustration, reaction, anger, spite, blame, all manifest as name calling, punishment, finger pointing, class warfare,  nationality, ethnic cleansing, economic lack, crime,  religion, etc. etc.  All of these are metaphysical data that has lost touch with that starting point of a child being a sensory machine/ organic machine that absorbs everything it is exposed to. And that child can absorb all the emotional and feeling energies that are the memories of parents who believe their measure, their data, that does not fit reality ( not all bad) is how something should be, despite indicators of their in-formation causing problems in an expression of self in relation to one’s full potential. 

If our neurons can rebuild, then we can process data/measure and give direction to behaviors that are not what is best for the child, behaviors that lead to no self harm, and by extension, no harm to others. 

To rebuild ourselves to be equal to the very fabric of life, to live in ways that do no harm and realize the good, as that which in a quantum moment, always resolves into what is best for that organic robot, that sensory machine as that baby imitating that smile, that measure , that data, we are going to need help.  We can use what we have created ( as it is not all bad, and what we have created reveals our innate ability to be critical in constructive ways and create anew)  to help us help ourselves. We can rebuild our within to be equal to the data without, as where we live our lives on a physical world.

What would be the behaviors of such an organic sensory machine? Would they be clear communication? Would we listen to one another instead of compete as our limited information that we believe will enable us to survive? Have we become  as mono-culturistic within as our world without, a system that has good, yet is not working which is reflected in the increasing lack of health in so many of our children? Does our data within that comes to direct us, serve a few,  the directives as information as our data/experience/opportunity/measure focusing within a very narrow self inner-rest/interest bubble, believing our memory perspective to be the end game, despite a part of ourselves that is aware that we are not paying attention to what is going on around us in other parts of the world, and the full measure revealed in the movement as our financial system- for example?

When you go out and get into your car today, is it increasingly more difficult to sense the space around you as you drive and have to back up your car?

Is it increasingly more difficult to communicate with people who are not within your immediate circle of friends?

Is it more and more difficult to do the simple things in life, such as stand up and put water in a bowl for your dog?

Is it more difficult to talk to your children, where you feel that they are not listening to you, and they feel that you are not listening to them? Do the emotional values of good and bad, appear to get in the way, and the problems that require solutions appear to be too big to solve?

Do you feel more and more that it is too hard to get all that paper work done?

Would these things exist if that measure within was equal to the measure without? Could you, if your within was equal to the data as the physical world without, ever go into blame, or would such a state mean that the only response possible was in all ways to move into solution and that this was a fully focused self that was being creative and interacting with life, communicating as life? Would this not be something that builds a self trust, and manifest as a state of ease - the opposite of dis-ease?

In the end it is all really very simple. The complication is the separation, that depression of an innate self discovery ability that is that which is educed - drawn out- taking on form, imitating the world, collecting the very measure of the outer world so that that inner world can self direct in self responsible ways that lead to a full focus that is the realization of one’s full potential as life.

Let us rebuild. The tool of Techno Tutor is here to do just this. And it makes this process fun. One’s home life will begin to be a community of people, that realize the value of clear communication and the joy of problem solving, which is being creative and enjoying the world around one. It is to ensure that the measure within is equal to the fabric without as this physical world we all live within.  The purpose of life is to express creation, which would naturally take that which is good and does no harm. A perfect design, if we allow and accept it. Techno Tutor: time to rebuild and end the depression that is  of limited information that ends up as a  suppression of a natural ability to self discover the world around us as the physical that is life.

Bring yourself back into a natural ability to spatially sense the world around you. It is your real expression, suppressed by limited information.  Resound yourself.

Watching my father, dying as his physical body shuts down, being a replay of old memories that have consumed his presence is watching the disease of a separation from being equal within to the without as this world.  It is the lose of that ease which had learned to imitate a smile.

 Rebuild to become an outcome of the full potential of that beautiful organic physical body that is so capable of retaining that rapid learning spatial ability inherent in a young child. Clean out those cells, so that with each seven year period, the information transferred is clear, clean and moving with ease and passed on as such with each new generation of life.  And yes, it is that simple. 

We have equations in the words we use that have been repeated over time. These words are “ the apple never falls far from the tree.”  And, ‘ you can take the farmer off the land, but you cannot take the farmer out of the man’ Both of these statements tell us we become our exposure.  We become what our parents were the measure of, and the measure of our experience. If that experience is not in tandem with the measure of physical reality, then our attentions cannot see what is here, and we lose efficient and effective application in our lives which is to direct ourselves in ways that take what is good and does no harm. Can we see, that a practice that is not considerate of practical reality, can be passed from generation to generation, and that unequal practice can accumulate over time, as our generated genes of measure, leading to compounded lack of an ability to focus within the physical necessity of living. Is this not what we are seeing in our children? 

Techno Tutor, the gift that keeps on giving. The fun way to rebuild one’s way into and back from an unequal measure within to being equal and one with what is real and that is the joy of being life, as creation in expression here.

In the next post I am going to look at the difference between moving by association and seeing directly this reality in which we live our lives.

Thanks for reading! Much appreciated.

De-manning the Reptilian Brain, Mindfulness, and Negative Feed Back Loops. What is Neuro Linguistic Programming?

I notice that at times I seek the end of conflict before any real investigation into the cause of conflict. It appears, which is an illusion, that only wanting the end of conflict, a ‘ good’ in itself, is compromised by seeking a removal of friction over finding an end to conflict that can stand, meaning that can withstand the test of time. How can I relate this to the life around me at present?, I ask myself!

Finding solutions that can withstand the test of time, means slowing down and communicating through all mis-understandings until each has a clear understanding that is so grounded, it cannot be denied and can be referenced with ease.

The only real way to be this is to consider this physical world and the systemic design that presently exists. Our money system determines access to development. We see the lack of development commensurate with the lack of ability to build a grounding as an understanding that is solid in creating stability in our actions with those around us, and in how much and how often we become a back chat of judgement about the actions of our fellow men. We constantly compare and measure in relation to ourselves, those around us. This exposes our mind-fullness reflecting the measure of our belief, opinion and idea.

We are doing this, so much so, that we can no longer see the forest, as this physical world and the systems built from such a focus, through the trees. 

The practice of mindfulness, is a minute realization that we are not our thoughts, that these thoughts need not become our directive, and that these thoughts can be negative-feed-back-loops that cause us to act in ways that are not what is best for us. Hence, we are told through this practice of mindfulness , to breath and to trace the outline of our fingers, which is to bring our focus back onto, into, the physical world, to include the actual real world around us.

So,  we understand that, like a feral child,  and with our proteges, that we become the measure within in accord with what we focus on. This becomes our experiential map- so to speak, our log of information. Our personalities reflect our measure, what we like and what we do not like, what measure we have been exposed to.

We all realize this through our class system. We compare based on class. We, for example,  in our schools, collect data on the amount of information/exposure each child has, and we measure this through words. This means overall, that we measure the detail ability of each child, through words. And our research reveals that the more words we know, the more detail we are able to process- the more information we can handle and construct and hence deconstruct with. This also means we have the information imput/output to direct ourselves in ways that are directives that consider more aspects and hence cause fewer problems. And, this overall, is a very small measure of our capacity, seemingly huge because we are caught in comparing what is essentially shades of grey if we were to stand back- which we have little practice with- and see the whole of the overall real measure within the total class system.

In tandem with this, we can look at a protégés .  If you were a child born into a family that had accumulated considerable information/data within a certain field, that measure would be expressed through words, repeated within one’s environment again and again, and this measure would become that child, or, as in some cases, something resisted- and the personality of the child would become that of resistance to and towards a certain set body of information.

Overall, this shows what we understand about neurological development, that our reptilian brains are influenced/programmed by our exposure, and that this is a process we call neuro linguistic programming because, like feral children, we become the measure of the sensory skills of a wolf- for example, and our “within-reptilian-brain” composed of neurons forming in relation to our exposure, of our surroundings. Especially those first seven years.

We could consider, if we do not understand this, that our brains are a ‘ reptilian demon” or a ‘ demanning’ system when the measure, as the neurons within, is not fine-tuned in accord with reality. And, we can have a negative feed-back-loop about neural linguistic programming if we relate this to what media/television is and does. In these two relationships, as values, within a narrow focus having not looked at this overall, we can consider our ‘ reptilian brains’ and ‘ neuro-linguistic programming’ as something charged with negative values that to not slow down, and really look at this in practical measure.  We see the end and not the means. We judge the end creating all manner of doom and gloom in relation to the end, causing a fear towards the end, and blinding us from the means.  This is manifest in how we blame the child without realizing how that child was formed and using this to correct that in-formation. Which, on a side note, reveals how influenced we are with charged values that come to direct us within judgement instead of common sense.

If we realize these things in common sense, then we can process all the fires of personality around us without moving into emotional reactions, because we begin to understand that our actions are directed by the measure of our information within, meaning the only choice is to move into a practical application as what gives direction that causes no harm, as punishment is calling a lack by a name  only, and pigeon-holing a limitation; this is not giving specific re-direction that expands the capacity of that reptilian neuro-linguistic programming that comes to be the measure that directs us.  Neither the reptilian brain is  a bad, or neuro-linguistic-programming- both reveal that what is in the ‘ mindfulness’ is what we have repeated enough to believe  is  a truth and often the view that casts a shadow that blinds us from seeing the forest, hence the need to ground us, through the mindfulness action of tracing the outline of our hands. What is our mind-full of but the measure of what our reptilian brains have been exposed to enough to be build neurons/neuro-linguistic-programs ( a program is a measure about something, a reflection of something, or about something, it is data).

Imagine a classroom where that reptilian brain had a neuro-logic-development nicely ordered, as words- because all research states very clearly that the more words we know the more capacity we have to direct and explain because humans use language to communicate, imagine a classroom of children whose reptilian brains were not ‘ de-manned’  ( notice that I have not turned this word into a noun!) through lack, and instead had neurons that were a nicely ordered ‘ lingo/word’ system/program’ that a foundation so solid with many words as many small measures about this physical reality, that each child had great confidence and enjoyed looking at information from many angles, each child giving an input about that information with such ease, that the behaviors in that classroom were of creation and the building of understanding that a teacher could go home at the end of the day and feel invigorated with life as each day lead to a greater understanding of life, such as bringing the joy of living to the forefront of one’s experience here on earth? What would that be worth?

It would be worth all the money in the world, it would be priceless. It would be the expression of absolute joy, of a room filled with a voice of harmony, of children expressing joy, a room where no shadows of fear existed. It is what we all seek. The means of here, We decide.

Thank you for reading!

How We Learn to Drive a Car and Building a Sound Cognition. Behavioral Dis-Orders

How do we learn to drive a car?

Do we sit in a room looking at a picture of a gear shift before we enter the car and start moving through the process of driving a car?

No, we do not, more often we get into the car, and are already are familiar with the parts because we have watched our parents drive the car for many years. We do not learn the parts of the mechanisms we directly use to drive a car through pictures with words attached in a box with all the distractions around us.

We sit in the driver’s seat one day, and as we sit there we directly learn the parts of the car we use to drive the car. The gear shift is a gear shift, the break pedal is a break pedal. A cup is a cup. And, to note, do we tend to project onto these devices? No. For some reason, the means to move the car that we use, we tend not to project any blame onto, any fantasy.  Meanwhile, most of us walk around projecting all manner of values onto the human body. We compare women to women; men, for example, evidently, every seven minutes, think about sex and do some fantasy projection onto a woman when the form of the human as a woman is walking down a street. Yet, I have never heard of anyone ( though there may be some! lol) talking about the break pedal as having some vacant look where a presence is absent in relation to a break pedal! I have been present with friends and men in the company of women, for example, and the sudden absence of attention, of presence is palpable, even if we at times cannot realize why we react in moments in seemingly chaotic ways while with friends or partners.  Somehow, the way most people I have met and traveled in a car with, do not have any distance of presence, or less of such, or behaviors of avoiding what they are doing within the action of driving the car. Yet, remember those times when one almost had an accident? These are the times when one was not paying attention- I ask, what was going on? This is being in separation from what has become automated as the information directive within our memories.

Thus, when we learn to drive we learn the parts we need to maneuver to drive and we sit with our presence acclimating to the car’s structure within these means to the end. We repeat and repeat the movement, much like learning to walk, until we can order our directive capacity  and move these parts needed with ease. Then these become ‘ smaller’ in that we can process the actions faster, and we are ready to drive the car with confidence. This is a dynamic process , one that leads to driving a car.  When this structure is set, we can expand our presence to the horizon and add more awareness as extending our awareness and taking in more of the world around us.

Yet, in a school what are we doing? And what is the media doing with all the pictures about the physical world around us? We are learning things through words and pictures. We learn some words and then we start to process information about this world through words. This is, in itself , a imagination of sorts, about what is really here, and the very means is one of limitation  because there is no common sense present because we are not dealing with the real things, like we are when we learn to drive! Yet, most of us learn to drive, even if we do not do well in school! And, most of us learn to walk! Can we see the correlation here? Knowledge and information without practical application is not only useless, but also inhibiting and something that can control what one thinks as what one believes as what one images to direct one’s self, and just as we take in the structure of the car directly and begin to move within that space and the objects within it, like programming ourselves, I must ask, what is that information doing to use that we learn in school in abstract ways, as in imaginary ways only? It becomes what we express, because it is what we are exposed to! We humans become the very measure of our world, meaning the very measure of the information we accept. As parents if we send our children to a public school we are accepting what we allow. If we do not investigate what is being the measure in what is presented to our children, we are simply not being responsible for our children.

If we learn limited information, which is what learning through pictures and words is because it has no direct access to the physical mechanism, and we learn through pictures with as associations can we possibly have as dynamic an ability to act as we do when we have learned to drive a car? 

Thus, limited information, as information only, is learning by association because there is no direct physical access to reality. There is no real substance for the placeholder as the words that compose the information, the knowledge is not grounded in reality, it becomes a construction that does not fit into reality, as we can see in so much of the behaviors of people in not being able to feel secure in what they do, or to, on another level, complete things in this world that do no harm.

If pictures are used, it becomes as that picture, a ‘ flat’ association that because it is information only, and is what becomes the memory, the imprint, the picture, it is what is processed as one’s directive. Of course, as consequence as the information, if it as the limitation that it is, does not fit into reality, then the actions, the movements of the object as the human, can move in all manner of ‘ not fitting in’ or ‘ mistakes through lack’ within moving in our world here, or, within living our lives.

The media does not help either. Because we are so absorbent, we take in everything, and if our ability to take in the measure of that break in that car - and that goes for all of us, even those we call stupid in terms of schooling- is interrupted with a shock, as a sudden change, or interruption then our natural ability to self dis-cover the very volume, quality, movement, density, feeling of that break in that car is cut short, and we become that measure as that interruption, and must process through this.  Thus, within space and time, we are all so interrupted and so lacking in non-associative learning that we become a measure of limited information that is also a chaos of association that has no real grounding. We lose what is a natural sense to think critically and become creative in dynamic and active ways, and we lose what is a natural ability to problem solve as many videos and that first process we learn  reveal that we are innately built to be and do, which is learning how to walk and as I am using in this article, to drive a car.

Within this, we can see, the extent to which so many children are suffering , because their ability, a natural ability, a natural learning ability is what and who they are, is suppressed through what I call a chaos of information that takes so much time to sort through, balance out, that the life and the ability of the child takes years to sort, and the child that becomes the adult blames themselves, and instead of becoming their full potential, a dynamic state of being, they become behaviors of quilt, of shame, of self judgement and not the expression of living a life that is aware  and able to do all things as well as they learned to walk and to drive a car.

This is also why all educational research shows that people who learn musical instruments tend to have  a greater capacity to see consequence and be constructively critical and creative. It is because to play and make music, one is not only a memory of associative imagery, a musician actually deals with a physical object where they must perform with that object just as someone does with a car, or in learning to walk.  The simplicity of this is such, that if one cannot fathom this, then know that the associative mind of information only, is a wall of information being processed through that of a story of justifications as the inFORM of oneself and that it is so busy, in what it is , that slowing down and relating to reality is like a huge effort. It is like slowing down a speeding train where one believes that the train is all that exists, because the train is moving so fast, that the car can no longer be seen through the window, that car that is driving along side that train.

Another insight into how much we move as information is to think of someone we know that we are very careful around, where we feel life we are walking on eggshells around them, to not cause an outburst or reaction. This is when we fear facing the information of that person, though ironically we are aware of this, which means we can process through the information, we simply fear not being able to answer. What we in essence are avoiding, is a wall of associative information only, that is all it really is, a measure that one has allowed to define oneself as. We are in essence facing a speeding train, and we fear facing the ‘ crash’ if we look at that belief, that is that information, and investigating it, to ground in ways where there is no longer that sense of ‘ walking on eggshells’ and instead, as the outcome to address this in detail, is to come to a point of understanding in ways that remove the tension that is simply a friction of two bodies of information competing to have attention- because that information of association is constantly wanting validation to support its construction. It is, ironically, again, like a ghost in the machine that believes itself to be as real as that gear shift, when it is only a memory. And that memory is not all bad, it has good in it, as it is a measure made from what is real, and what is right here in front of us.

Thus, what I propose, is to rebuild that cognition, to re-order it, to clean up all cognitive dis-order,  to take the time to create a memory of small bits of information, to enable oneself to have the space within self, to focus oneself through a well ordered memory, a wall of information, to be able to see beyond the structure of the ‘ car’ to the horizon, to enable one ‘s self to expand and move in constructively critical ways, to become creative in ways that do no harm, and thus live a dynamic life, a life as dynamic as we are when we drive a car, or as dynamic as when we learn to walk because this is us using our great capacity to think critically and be creative, building a life that sees the world and rides the train at the same time. This is our natural state of being, one that is much easier than the conflict with living that a mind built of associations rather than a mind that sees directly here.

Remember, the statement ‘ the apple never falls far from the tree’ is a testament to the outcome of generating associative memories, because the focus of the child, those formative years, is on the parent, and our ability to take in information, like a feral child, is so great, is so magnificent, that we take in the measure of our parents, and if they are built of associative thinking constructions, the child will become that measure. And as we know habits, as what we repeat, are harder to change - just like slowing down that train-  than to have learned to play that violin correctly in the first place!

I would suggest, using Techno Tutor, as this is the only tool that I, as a reading specialist and a trained violinist, have found to be the most effective way and means to building a memory, a ‘ train of information’ that can be so well ordered that one can move from the mechanisms of the car to seeing not only the inside of the car, and also, the horizon. After all, that horizon is magnificent, we need only slow down, rebuild ( and prevention is the best cure) and look. It has always been there!

Since it is too hard to change the structures that exist within our society, why not transform our schools into places of discovery and investigation? Why not turn our schools into places where we build well ordered cognitive maps, that give a structural means to build self confidence and self esteem, in each and every child, so that the teachers can trust the child, and themselves to allow a child to take a direction that enables the full potential of that child to discover a full expression of themselves as life, that can create dynamic individuals that can respect and work with the world around them, never needing to walk on eggshells!. This is what we all seek. The structures we have in our society can be transformed into a good.  The strength comes from all of us standing together to make subtle changes that help all of us to help ourselves.

Thank You for reading!

                                         The Ghost in the Machine.

Depth Perception and Reading, Where is our natural spatial ability?

Depth Perception and Reading.

A Child Climbing  Rock Wall

One of things I notice as I interact with others, is a lack of depth perception. By this I mean the ability to back up a car, or to order objects in a space- such as household organization.

Where are we if we cannot slow down and take the time to see the space around us and order, or, move ourselves within it? Are we lost in these behaviors of a lack of depth perception?

I watched this video of a child, a very young child, climbing a rock wall. This child moves with a fluidity and continuousness  Obviously, this ability is a natural ability, we are born with this. What happens?

I remember asking about this when I was back in university completing my degree in Reading. Eventually, the professors, told me that they did not know how to do this, and that this was too difficult. How can something be difficult if it is what is natural? Our ability to focus here, being aware of the space of here is a natural ability. 

We all understand that advertising has become a constant within our environment. And we understand that what is being the measure, because it is a measure of something, means that we understand that we become the measure of the world around us. If we are constantly watching the measure imposed around us, we become this. Is what is the information given, in our schools, in our media grounding us, meaning, retaining this natural ability to be aware of the space and the time around us? No. Were it, then we would retain this fluid ability to sense the space around us that is a natural ability. Our ability to sense the space around us is a natural ability. This natural ability is then lost and it is because we have allowed a measure to be of knowledge and information in separation from practical beingness here. We are all the cause of our own separation because we accepted and allowed an abdication of our own ability to perceive the very space around us.

If we lose this ability what would happen? We become uncertain because we have nothing to ground us. That machine that senses the space is all of us, as our physical bodies. We deny one part, as this physical body, and we become, through spaced repetition, being in our abstraction making selves as our thinking only, then we lose our grounding, and we lose our ability to perceive the depths , meaning the very space around us.

We can no longer climb that rock wall, and instead, in our ignoring of remaining in inclusion of the very space around us, we, from the distance of our separation,  are astounded at this ability in others- all the while this is our natural ability, it was/is our starting point. 

This begs the question: What are all the so-called dis-eases in our children? Where has this natural ease gone? Is this natural ability placed in a box as thinking only, where there is no real footing to place our feet? Is it here that we lose our natural spatial ability to back up that car, or to organize that space in our homes? The answer is yes.

One must rebuild and reground. This which we are already doing in the very measure of our so-called interventions. These interventions, though a good, are too slow. We need tools to reground ourselves as our measure within. Technology can be a good for this because it is never emotional ( in value judgments as thinking only), it is grounded here. It can be used to remeasure our within, to focus us on the parts, to rebuild our attention to detail, removing all the uncertainty we have memorized in the course of our separation that is what inhibits our natural ability to sense the space and direct ourselves in practical ways that enable us to climb a rock wall at a very young age. This is why words are so important, because they order the very measure of ourselves.  One must want this, want to return to our natural state of being. It means giving up everything to gain everything. What would you choose?

What happens to the memory of the child as they participate in the world?

What happens to the memory of the child as they participate in the world?

As parents, do we realize that our absorbent children take in all the measure of us, as our beliefs, opinions and ideas? Do we realize that we were born without language, or culture or race or religion? Do we realize that this is all a measure based on a past, as traditions, that we bring from one generation to the next? Do we realize that we move as what we were exposed to in our early environments to such a degree that we become our parents as we grow older?

If we learn by imitating, by taking in, the world around us, we can see that every single movement we move as, becomes the child, because the child mirrors everything the parent does on a cellular level. That is how great our capacity to take in form exists as. So, do we as parents, carefully watch our every move?

An example; Let us look at a moment when one might be exiting a car. The day previous to this was busy, and the traffic slow. One stops to get some gas, pulls into the bumping bay, and opens the door to step out to the pump. As one shuts the car door, with the child/baby sitting in the back seat, there is a rush in the way you as a parent moves within shutting the door. All of your frustration and anxiety is loaded into that movement of shutting that door. One may notice that one shut the door with more energy and drive than one expected, as one was thinking about how one was late, and the day was not moving in expected ways. All of this is memorized as a movement by the child. All of it.

Later, perhaps two weeks or so, the child is playing with something on the table, and suddenly moves in a rushed way, filled with what was imitated, as what was memorized and what was taken as modeled as sensed by the child in their world. The child accidentally, knocks something off the table, because the energy as the model of the parents become the modeled behavior of the child. The parent then yells at the child. The child is confused, because the child was being what the child had learned, had imitated, and the child does not yet understand how this all works, nor does the parent.  Thus the child is blamed for their action that was a model of the parent. The child taking in and moving the same way. Is the child going to develop confidence in such an event? Is the child learning to respect and participate in their world in effective ways? No.

Thus, the child becomes value judgements as the measure within. They become the stress of the parent. They become that inner stress, to the extent that they miss the practice of being present here, being aware of the world around them. They begin to lose their attention to the practical world. And then we parents, reprimand them for this. Can we really blame them, when we were the model of the separation? Can this same process be handed down generation after generation? Yes.

If we begin to understand this, we can begin to understand the accumulation of attention deficit dis-orders that grow, perhaps exponentially, in our children. It is, very simply, that the measure as the experience of the child, is not equal to the measure of the world around them. On the side, many of us realize, by the time we sort all of this out, when we are older, that this did not need to exist from the beginning. We can blame our parents. Is this a solution? No

What would be a solution?

To ground ourselves back into practicing being an intervention that directs our focus back into the practical. We can use the structure as words, to be the real measure of ourselves here in this life we must live as what we are. We can rebuild our inner measure, through bringing that energy that is not equal to being at ease in our worlds, back into a measure, using words, to become ‘ small’ enough to see the details of living, and thus enabling ourselves to move with self confidence and ease in our lives, realizing that we can focus here, and learn the real measure of living, to then not fear learning anything, meaning learning about what we really enjoy doing.

If you could have the power, and the means to build a child, to see directly here, thereby having a superior memory, and building self trust, self confidence and self esteem, what would that be worth to you? You would not have to depend on a school, you could make sure that your child was sound, was structured in a way they could learn, choose and succeed at whatever they wanted. They would have the freedom to choose, because instead of being anxious, insecure, uncertain, they would have an ordered memory, the measure of their experience, that enables them clear self direction.

Only a parent can ensure that the child reaches their full potential. Everything a parent does, is absorbed by the child. And this takes time to clear up when it is not grounded and at ease. Since prevention is the best cure, why not use technology, that never gets tired, never has a stressful day, help you help yourself, through ensuring that, via words as the perfect tools of measure, are without all those emotions one does not realize are in every single movement and is being learned by the child, by association- imitation- mirroring, to make sure these words are clear, clean, stable. 

The means are here, and they are very cost effective. It is what each would have wanted for themselves. 

How do we Learn and what is the Absorbent Mind?

How do we learn and what is the absorbent mind, our natural learning ability?

How do we learn? How did I learn to play the violin? How did the children I taught learn to play the violin? How did I teach the children in the schools?

We repeated what was being taught, which is within the direct instruction model. We introduce the material, we explain the concept- the form, the structure, the design, the object and its way of moving. We repeat this. We show examples. We hand this over to the children to ‘ move as’ by themselves. We, sometimes in our current habits, send home more examples to practice, to repeat. This is the practice in step, of repetition.

Our research makes it clear that children who have the opportunity and exposure to hearing/seeing/experiencing more variation in words/vocabulary, specified subject matter- such as parents who have studied science, or music, or golf - tend to have a greater capacity to do that to which they were exposed. And since the behavior, as the know how, of the parents and their focus is repeated again and again, that absorbent mind of the child will pick this up and imitate it. So, we learn by repetition. That is the base. And we know that children have very absorbent minds. We understand how rabidly they can learn languages. We understand that a child who grows up in a home where there is a lot of music being performed and practiced and talked about will often begin a musical instrument and within 10,000 hours have mastered that instrument. So, by the age of seven, with consideration to allow the child to become what is around it, and practice the structure, which is bringing awareness into the form, which is integrating this into a structural memory within to build neurons that pair back and expedite the movement of the informed awareness structure, to become that protege- as the word we use to describe someone who learns something at a young age. 

Our feral children are the same, they become the measure as the focus of the sense practiced in becoming the space and timed measure as the behavior of the host. So great is our ability to learn, to sense the world around us and order this when given the structure to experience and model again and again, in its application and form. Thus we learn by repetition, and within this we discover our physical bodies and learn with mis-takes as a natural part of this learning process. A child falls down many times before they walk with ease.

This also begs the question as to what we are doing with this sense that can become the very form and practice repeated again and again? Is our natural learning ability something like water?

Is our ability to absorb extendable to forms around us, just as that feral child imitates and repeats with trial and error, with and as this absorbent substance that is a sensory mechanism practicing the shape and form and movement range of the world around it?

Thus, if we place our children in a box, a classroom, for 12 years, expecting them to learn through abstracting about knowledge and information ONLY, what are we creating with this absorbent natural learning/sounding/modeling.practicing/reflecting ability? Since we become what we practice, do we end up aggrandizing what is a singular good into a limitation? Are we making this good-turned-limitation as this practice, larger than that used as a movement to model/absorb into thinking as abstracting as imagining ONLY? Would this not create a disconnect from reality? Would this not be the imprint passed down from one generation ( as this is what is generated) to the next? Thus, would that child not have to sort out living here in physical reality in practice and the generational information? Would this cause some chaos if that generational imprint were lacking in a sound structural memory of the practice of living as physical states of being that is what our lives are while we are here on earth?

Can knowledge and information be manipulated within such a systemic design? Remove that absorbent ability from the practice of living, and inform it through spaced repetition- as going to school and sitting in a room, shut off from the physical natural world, and practice through spaced repetition the form of imagination use ONLY, until this becomes the means of seeking direction and the information of self structurally. Where does this end up? Would this not be attention away from practical living? Would that memory, or could that memory, fill up, like a computer?

How many have noticed that it becomes more difficult to be flexible as we age? How many have noticed that as we get older, things we could do before seem to become more and more difficult? This is the same as saying that moving in our worlds becomes more difficult. We tend to want, narrower comfort zones to remain in as a consequence. Why would this be? Could this be that our memories, as our experiential maps, as our repeated structural cognitions are limited and done from imagination ONLY, as we were taught to move, by systemic design, to repeat- is this like computer memory, a stagnation, that eventually fills up?

This begs the question. If our focus was on the practice of the form as what we are, as sensory physical mechanisms,  could we cross reference the physical reality, and realize memory as our imagination for what this is, and ‘ wipe’ the slate as memory clean with each use so that it never gets filled up? Would this not mean understanding memory for what it is, and practice becoming the forms around us, and using memory, cognition for what is really is? 

How can we transform our present practices into what would allow the full potential of this mechanistic ability? No one wants to lose their job, no one wants to limit this in a child either. We cannot continue to move as we are as our educational structure, because the consequences of this practice of placing that absorbent unique expression of our children into thinking and abstracting and memorizing ONLY, in a box, are manifesting as all manner and degree of so-called attention deficits. This will only compound more, and we will become what we make movies about; zombies. What is a zombie really? It is someone who is not present in practical reality, it is someone ‘dead’ to common sense. And does that memory, consume the flesh of the physical body that was the means to absorb the world and express as a physical state of being? Do our so-called fairy tales reveal to us what we are doing as in what we are accepting and allowing?  Can we not see the forest through the trees because we are all products of this separation and mis-use of our absorbent ability? When we have interventions for those already genetically and environmentally cluttered, and existentially placed into a method of practice that continues the lack of structure through a slow motion of  in-form-ation,  do we not see that we are in effect slowing down what was a natural inclination to realize the practice of movement in a physical formation that is what we are?

On another practical front, when we teach compassion, and the benefit of the golden rule we teach in our schools, to give to another as one would give to one’s self, is this not an admission that we have this capacity to with our natural ability to take on form, be able to sense the form of another even in their actions as dimensions of what it means to be focused here? And does this not show how we become the measure of our parents and that this substance is the mechanism to be and do this in practice here? If we use this to practice living in grounded practical ways, what would happen to our overall living with one another? Would we become this golden rule and realize that this is the means to reaching our full potential?

To reground and refocus we are going to need help. We can use what we have externalized to help focus us, reform us, back into a practical measure of living as what we are. We can use technology to refocus us, to rebuild our cognition- our directive information within. We can use the great plasticity of our physical bodies to reform ourselves structurally to walk the process of remeasuring our absorbent fluid self back down to the ground, so that those interventions are no longer necessary by the time the child, the man, reaches a certain age, because the child will begin to realize how this works and be able to self direct and consider all things, taking that which is good and does no harm, because they see directly, because they are living the smallest measure of order, they live the words they know as the placeholders of the information of reality. It is there right in front of us, we are the words we know. The more words a person has had the opportunity and experience to encounter, in variation, the greater the potential success of the child. Words create a structural navigation system, when stable and sound that fluid absorbent mind/self has the means to focus and practice living here. The words are living words. This would be a life of joy as this would be a child who could express their full capacity, that joy of communion with actual real living. You decide. The tools are here.

                We are the measure of our experience and words are placeholders for the measure of our  

                                          experience. We then build a sound mind/cognition.