Showing posts with label language. Show all posts
Showing posts with label language. Show all posts

Monday, April 3, 2017

Why is Learning to Read and Reading to Learn so Important? How Can I Help?

Recent studies in how the brain processes words/information have revealed that when a picture is learned with a word, conceptual ability is slowed down. In one article, it was noted that processing a word with a picture happened within a third of a second, while processing a word alone happened within a tenth of a second. A word, is a technological tool to place information, as human communication. After all, animals can process a series of tasks leading to a goal, though they cannot communicate this in human language. Humans use language to communicate. This is done within many borders; written and spoken text. Text is really a picture, a symbol, a graph. Words are in many ways only a reflection of what is around us, be it the practical world, or a resonant belief system one holds to define one’s self. In this, one can make that resonant belief larger than the practical. One’s words become a relationship to one’s belief. When this is larger than life, one exists in a state of separation from the practical.  This is why it has been said to take that which is good and does no harm, because this holds a recognition of the practical, the physical, and it restrains an inner construct of belief from imposing itself on the physical. 

Research studies reveal that better spelling skills lead to better jobs and higher levels of self actualization. Conversely, yet reflective of this, is the understanding that the greater the degree of violence, the less developed the vocabulary. Basically, the less one is able to communicate. The lack between these two in a world where so much communication is done with graphed constructs ( pictures, words, and the relationship of projections onto pictures) about this practical world, limits expression causing frustration and fear, leading to violence and resistance, hiding and protection. Remember, violence is a form of resistance, and it is an inability to effectively communicate. 

The practice of the smallest of what composes language, as the words, the spells, the graphs, is no longer a consistent part of our daily development of the child. And a child is very absorbent, they absorb the lack in the adults who also lack vocabulary development, and as a consequence, have varying degrees of inferiority to communication. The behaviors towards violence which is any form of a lack of real communication, become the measure of the child, because this is their experience. One reflects the other. Would there be a term such as a zone of proximal development that indicates a point of inner development? The term in itself reveals the whole.  

If one has slowed down and practiced the small, as spelling, one has focused more on the words.Yet, if one has a resonance memory of learning words with relationships to pictures or the lack of real vocabulary development in the home with the parents in those initial formative years, there is a clutter in processing, causing slower processing speeds. To note, learning a word with a picture, has faster short term effects, conversely learning a word without a picture, has greater long term effects. One misses movement in reality when one is busy processing what is imprinted within as pictures of emotional and feeling value constructs absorbed from the parent that are metaphysical maps as memory. This is a very strong state of being, as I noticed after living in a foreign country for 10 years- I had become more in manner the measure, or persona, of the national character of the country I inhabited, and it took about 7 years.  For example, how can one realize subtle tensions, as physical behavior in others if one is busy processing through a file of many pictures or value entities that are visible as personality likes and dislikes over practical considerations? And, would not a direct relationship with the word, and living reality become the greater sum of all parts? Would this not stop getting lost in inner value judgements, that can also become a collectively accepted body of information. Which, is why it is hard to communicate with ease with a foreigner, even when they have managed to learn one’s language to a certain degree. I mean, the metaphysical constructs, as persona, are visible, and how they are built is practically right in front of us. It is really very simple. One’s degree of separation from the practical reflects the degree of one’s lack of awareness, or forgetfulness, of what one resonates within as beliefs, opinions and ideas over the practical. All of this is visible in how one is using language because the language reflects one's level, or zone of proximal development, How near or far are we from realizing what we are within, and the practical world around us, without. The degree to which one can learn new things, is equal to the degree of mastery of self, one has within, as in realizing that what is resonant within is simply a reflection of one’s experiences, and possible judgements about that experience. That within, can become a comfort zone, where one loses teachability. We can get stuck in holes of our own resonance. This is when friction and resistance and a greater degree of violence with the world around us begin to manifest. 

If we look at schools as a framework, meaning a framed box where we learn through pictures ( word descriptions are a form of pictures),  that set body of information becomes not only a general scaffold of information, it becomes a general scaffold of information that is also a picture. Thus, and we know that after seven years a child has accumulated formation based on the parents awareness and their environment with humans being that of which I speak. If the parents have learned words without a direct relationship to the living reality and mastered spelling, we have a manifold problem, where the experience of the child is the measure of everything they have been exposed to. This is why a child from a stable environment, where there is more effective language use, do better in school. This means, that the schools do not really teach children. This means that the schools, with teachers that are a product of this, and a design that exacerbates this, are a part of the problem. I would say that the capacity of humans to order, and the consequence of a lack of clear order, or the consequence of limited order ( the guise of  good) are actually the problem. 

Schools more manage, the degrees of difference, as capacity or lack of effective word/spelling use inherent in the home. If the parent does not have a mastery of language, and they exist as a product of a school system where they learned a set body of information through memory/picture, and this being a general scaffold of information resonant within without direct application , what does the child become as they absorb the image and forms as movements of this limitation overall? Realize the consequences of this general set body of memorized/resonant information, that becomes a distraction, thereby losing an ability to process information in real time, because of so much time spent focusing on a set pictured body of information in itself learned with no real living relationships to reality,  leads to greater and greater insecurity, compounding over time into behaviors that are what exist in the home environment that is then what the child absorbs!  And we wonder why we have so much friction in our relationships. A more perfect practice builds a more fluid teachability, imperfect use of the imagination, lead to lesser degrees of effective self responsibility. No one can realize this but the self. 


How is it that we cannot realize that the reason we wait for a child to reach seven, before sending them, traditionally, to school, that we send them at this age because they have absorbed enough experience in reality to begin to self direct. Just as in the model of reading, where, usually, 1st and 2nd grade are when one learns to read, to then move into reading to learn as being the model of practicing the small, building momentum, then moving into beginning to apply one’s self in a deeper and greater circle of awareness AS NOT BEING HOW THIS ALL WORKS!  It is that how we work, is right in front of us!  We realize, that within this, it is very very difficult to change that foundational resonance. It takes great patience and consistent effort. It takes rebuilding! Think of Helen Keller. The schools in themselves, cannot be that detailed practice. They are a program of presenting a set body of information that is a general scaffold without any living relationships, thereby sounding like a good, that is really what leads to the dumbing down of America. If each generation does not realize this slow and subtle dumbing down, we are like a frog placed in cold water heated over many decades. when the frog dies because the water has become too hot, and we cannot see that, we stand there unable to see why the frog has died. We are at that point where the frog has died. What I have heard from superintendents, is that there are problems, and what is being done is not working.  This is even happening in some of the best schools in the state. What is interesting, is that local parents at the elementary school where I am, they talk about how wonderful the school is, because this is what the teachers say to them, the voice higher up is different. My experience in life tells me that this is probably the same story in every town. Humans can weave many justifications, to protect their metaphysical ideology, ignoring what is so evident in our present reality; our children have lost  practical ability. If you are an adult, ask yourself how much loss of spatial skill you are experiencing. The degree of a loss of spatial skill is equal to the degree of a loss of focus on the forms that are all around us, as the practical. That within metaphysical resonant construct has become larger that life. I can say, after I moved back to the states after living in a foreign country for ten years, the degree of this is very deep, and it takes effort to change it. For this reason, I have great admiration for what was done with Helen Keller. Obviously, prevention is the best cure. 

We humans are so caught in the web of abstracting in our imaginations, that we can no longer realize how we work.  We can ask ourselves what is a thought, especially if we ask ourselves what we generated as that momentum built from absorbing and by extension, imitating, as the very movements of the adults in our world that we were placed in, that we” learned to read, to move into reading to learn. “  If our parents were products of a system that by design, used learning in isolation to imprint a general scaffold that was by definition a ‘ picture’ of information ONLY , causing slower practical processing of reality, thereby causing mistakes of reality, leading to insecurities ( because we blame ourselves and rightfully so in many ways, because we are the only ones who can change this ) that becomes our actions as these little movements build momentum and accumulate into what is resonant within us, that then reverberate as our thoughts- such things we are not aware of -  and from where they come - when it is all explained in the learning model. I mean, manipulation can be such a subtle thing, and a hard thing to realize if one is caught in a resonance, or memory, of mis-information that may be correct, but limited as not enough, that causes distractions from seeing living reality thereby being a slow processing speed in who and what one is as having a living relationship to one’s practical reality! Astounding! I want to say WT#, here. LOOK!

A word, as human communication, is a thing, it is sound, it is visual, it is kinesthetic, meaning it touches one. It is a graph, it is a sound gram, it can touch us, reach us. It is like all the arts in one! I mean, why is it the one thing in a school that is taught as words, taught in a way that it is so in separation from practical and realistic real time connections, and drawn out with boring texts and group lessons, of same age, yet different starting points of development? Why is it this way? I mean, I have taught music, individually and in a group, it can happen so much faster than how we teach language, because it reveals by design the process of what happens when one physically learns, meaning when one builds with a direct relationship to a physical movement. This is so hidden in plain sight!  Mixing ages moves counter to the understanding that one can only move forward according to the zone of one’s proximal development! So, to set up groups of a wide range of development is to not move within that border of development, where learning happens at more expansive rates. It is in some ways the opposite, and can explain how competition exists within the schools, because while one is trying to process through memory, which is much slower learning, one is also comparing one’s self to the other students, as though one is in a race, which distracts from what one is doing, and becomes a habit because we become what we practice - as the learning to read, and reading to learn model explains. Thus, overall, the whole design is mathematically counter to what is best, counter to how we learn, and it is by design. If you are shaking at this point, it is because one is going to have to deconstruct to reconstruct, and that causes a self ordering process of slowing down that racing mis-used imagination, that feels like one is shaking inside. Yes, the problem is that deep. 

The good news is that there is a solution. One has to rebuild. It means using words as the placeholders of information, and building living relationships directly with the practical, physical world. Thus, one NOT ONLY practices learning the means of communication as words to hold information, one also builds a momentum of relating each word to the living reality around us, so we become a movement that never misses a beat in the world around us, as this is processing more than ONLY what is within one’s self as that which is in the imagination that is a consequence of one’s experience in a world that has practiced the opposite of what builds a sound mind. 

That which is missing, is a consistent practice of the individual with the small. School is a kind of orchestra practice and that private lesson a one-on-one practice. Therefore, what is missing is the consistent and constant individual practice as this analogy is another perspective on this. A musician must practice the instrument alone ALSO, moving with the small, practicing it, to accumulate a more correct and direct relationship between the instrument and the physical living reality. This builds a more natural direct practical effective focus.  There is a stage where one can get stuck, or lost, in automation so one must learn to always check, even when it appears that one is quite capable. Beyond automation is, from my experience,  the point where masters realize the most important is mastery of the smallest, the simplest of movements, as the smallest and simplest are the means to sensing the whole, or the more complex. In a way one builds trees of understanding, from the general to the subtle, and one continually cross references one's inner structure, so that there is only one ‘ picture’ very well composed, and so readable, that one can not only see what is within, but what is without at the same time. I see this as being the particle and the wave, in my limited, yet emerging awareness of this, and, as this that should never have been lost, as this is realizing the real potential of each of us, leading to a world where we as human beings work in the same manner together as that of which I speak. Overall, we can realize that processing speeds differing in measure from a third of a second, to a tenth of a second, can have great consequences in our lives, especially within the law of accumulating effects. This begs the question as to what is insecurity and what is self confidence? How are they build, or how are they formed? 

It is time to clean this up, and ensure that this mis-take in development of our children comes to an end. There is a tool to expedite this process. It is a tool to lend a more perfect practice ( one could call this a metronome, or a ski pole, or an abacus: it is a tool) , to prevent mis-understanding as cognitive dissonance, and to build a sound mind.

If you are experiencing a loss of spatial skill, or having reading problems, send me a note, and we can look at a simple and practical way to correct these problems.


Thank you for reading.


                                         Time to get the river flowing. 

Friday, February 27, 2015

Impulse Control of ADHD, ADD, Developmental Delays and Executive Function.

Impulse Control of ADHD, ADD, Developmental Delays and Executive Function.

A child absorbs their world, taking in the very volume and quality and movement of the world around them. And then, they must begin to learn language, which is in essence to name the objects of this world, the qualities of those objects and the manner in which those objects move.
One could say there are two things happening, the child absorbing and the child learning the code as the names of the very fabric of this world that is human language, that that child must learn to direct themselves with and as. This language can become, this technology as words, can become an ordering system of self directing.

Impulse control ‘ orders ‘ such as being given specific directions to follow to complete a task are supportive. A reward system of say, stars on a graph, may support in a moment, but it is overall a distraction, because the mark of a gain diverts the attention away from developing a sense of the task being completed as being the value, a value of self realizing that tasks can be completed by simply following the steps one at a time. (Just to note, a child that is already having a hard time being practical, do they really need another distraction?) And does this not beg the question as to what the problem is? Is it that too many values of what is good and what is bad have accumulated within the child creating a fear that becomes overwhelming cognitively? Was this a starting point of impulsed charged values that were not clear and practically directive in the first place? There is a gap here, overall, that is not being addressed. The very foundation, the units of foundation building in a child are absent through a cloud of good and bad  that is by nature a lack of full function disclosure, of practical functioning in detail.
So, lets go back and look at where we started. We started with the child sensing their world, having this great capacity to sense. Then we have this transition from sensing to learning language. And then that sensibility starts to slow down and move into behaviors that are not a child performing in ways that are interactive  in supportive ways with others and their world. And,  the starting behaviors were extremely interactive behaviors, so in essence the means of building awareness was a given, was the very nature of the child.
One could say, the disconnect begins with language.
I read an article that talked about comfort objects. Specifically, it mentioned and assumed, that a comfort object was a reminder of mommy. This may be true, and it may not. One thing I cannot do is realize the exact construct of comfort in a child’s mind, which not one can do because we cannot be in another’s mind.
We understand that psychological comfort objects are to feel safe, to re-mind us of a safe place and that that safe place is still here, gone for a moment.
But why do we not feel safe where we are? A child is born with no sense of language, and has to crawl and discover the world. When they are focused on this, they are so totally absorbing that I, especially with my children, remember them not having any fear at all! If anything I had to watch them because they were so focused and so absorbent that I had to watch them to protect them from their drive to absorb , to make sure they did not come to something that they had no awareness of because they had never interacted with it and in the process of interacting learn the hard way as to how something worked causing themselves harm. If I made up a story to place a scary ‘ fairy tale’ , a quick fix, then I built a supernatural existence within them, one that was in separation from reality. So, essentially, I, the parent, was the cause of that child’s ideological entity building as imagination that separated the child into thinking/imagination more than being what was natural, which was being focused here in practical reality.  And then, as this was built and the promise of the child began to disappear, did I look at what I had done, or did I blame someone else? Remember that the interventions suggested are to order that separated child back into practical reality!
Language. Thus, a child would develop fear through superstition. If something is not made clear in form and function, and instead a story is told to the child as a justification for not doing something, or for doing something, and that story is a ‘ what if’ story, or a gloom and doom story then the child builds a superstitious construct as a belief that is of NO PRACTICAL APPLICATION. This means that a child, a human being, that is born practically sensing the physical world around them, learns about a metaphysical, supernatural quality to things, that have consequences imagined ( which may be true, but the child has no direct experience as their sensibility so they only have a imagined value/charge attached as idea, an entity like a ghost in their conceptual development!) that bear no witness to reality, to the development of their innate ability to under-stand through physical sense absorption of reality. In a way, this is really messed up.
And the irony is, that the solution to balance the unable-to-focus mind of the disturbed child is to give interventions that are really very practical, which is the interventions of giving specific directions needed to complete a task. So, the separation from that innate practical ability of the child has been directed into something that is not clear, which was done with language ( and media pictures) as words used to construct a picture that is charged with a value that is superstitious and metaphysical that does not tell the real sensual qualities, manners, movements of this actual physical world in which we live. ( This means that superstition is a story of limitation!) Why do we not connect the simplicity of the nature of the child and the spoke in the wheel as the forms we are using our language to create that are metaphysical as composed stories that do not tell the actual practical story of the actual real live physical world, and then come back with interventions that are giving directions that are practical? This is really like a smoke and mirrors show of how separation happens, but because of this, our own natural conceptual abilities are askew. We have lost our ability to look at the parts and the whole and realize the nature of the disconnect from reality that our children are suffering in greater and greater numbers and the very ways in which we are the cause of this separation.
Thus, the solution. We were told of the solution. It is right here, right in front of us and the research is right in front of us, giving us the solution. Our language has to be grounded in practical reality. Our words must be equal to their object, their quality, their manner as reflected in practical movement of physical reality. The word within must be equal to the world without as this gives the child the object to focus on practically, and it builds an imagination, a cognitive map, an inner gps, that creates stability in the child. This then builds real critical thinking skills leading to creative thinking skills, leading to the forming of that sense ability of the child into a volume that is confident in directing themselves in this world, because it is a physical world. The within of the child, as their experiential map is equal in measure to the practice of living, which is being practical, as our so-called interventions reveal but have not looked at the foundational starting point as the words, which the research reveals is the solution. Round and round we go, but do we see?
Language is a sounding of men about this world. If this sound is equal to this practical world, this world that the child is absorbing as is their nature as life, then the sound within as their gps system will be a sound map of this actual world they so are driven to absorb. This then, would build a child that needs no comfort objects, because they would be grounded. This would be a child that would not need interventions to correct this disconnect. This would be a child who could create, which is a child who could become an inventor, someone who had the development to build through invention a world that would benefit all.
We are the words we know, and I mean really know.
Techno Tutor, it is time to build a sound mind. It is what you would have wanted for yourself.
Abracadabra - we are the words we know. Parents, it is time to become the responsibility you would have wanted for yourselves.

Thank You for Reading!




Thursday, June 12, 2014

Words are a collectively accepted " code." Those who know the " code' have access to self development.


If we are given the chance to look at something and aspects of what we are looking at are pointed out, then humans have the capacity to see.
Language, is really something secondary to the thing being looked at. One could say that language, as words, are a collectively accepted code to represent a thing.
As such, people who have no access to the “ code” or, are limited in their exposure and practice with the “ code” will not understand when another speaks the “ code.”
What does this tell us about language that humans speak?
This tells is, that unless you learn the code, you do not have access in instances where the “ code” is the means of communication about something without the form of the thing being discussed.
Humans believe that they are special because they know this “ code” that , for example, animals do not know. And yet, animals, can travel great distances, and so can birds, and so can other animals.
But, what do we use our words to describe? This physical world we exist within, and the metaphysical world of our emotions and feelings? Our inner states of being, while we are in our physical bodies?
How did we accept that just because someone knows more of the words to label this physical world and how is moves, and how we are within ourselves, to mean that another does not experience the same exterior sensations and interior sensations, that we word users do. Does being able to give an abstract sound that reveals nothing about what it is used to describe - unless one learns this-  mean that those lacking the “ code” do not experience the same? I mean, it can’t, someone who lacks the “ code” on this physical planet, does not mean that they do not feel hot and cold, hungry and in confusion when say, for example,  they see their labor producing something, and then being taken away, and yet they have nothing in return. Even someone like this would realize that this makes no sense.
I can hear so many saying, “ oh, no!, words have meaning!” Words have a meaning we collectively accept, otherwise, they are just a sound coming out of someone’s mouth. Nothing else. Words as a sound blowing in the wind, as humans use them, have no meaning at all. 
Remember being a child, and feeling really frustrated?  It was almost like being trapped, like being within yourself and not being able to speak, and being talked at, and it all is just utter confusion. Later this is forgotten, and we join the adult world, we learn the words and we accept that they have meaning, but we forget why we accepted these words, as we began to match them. Often only being told we did not understand. Like we were supposed to “ know” the meaning behind the words, and what happened was confusion, leading to self definitions of inferiority. And then, believing it is us, individually, when it is the individual exposure and practice and knowledge as our abstract mind memory as the accumulation of the “ code” as the words we know. If we do not know the words, and we accumulate an experience of lack, then this becomes what we believe ourselves to be, when it is not what we are, as our ability, it is our experience, our past.
So, children who do not do well in school, are really those who are lacking in understanding the words, and or, having clear definitions of the code of words, or, know many words and become frustrated in sitting and waiting for the children who did not have the opportunity to learn the code, learn the code. Either way, punishing a child for not knowing the code, or for being bored because sitting in a chair while things are moving very slowly around one, where there is no chance to direct oneself within learning about this physical world and how it works, is really a crime. This is insane. I can understand why a group of children in a school are so terrified. I can understand why they sit there and stare at you, because they realize if they don’t learn the code, then they are going to be punished, and no one likes to be punished. There is no learning in suffering, it is, plain and simple, suffering. THere is no self directive ability in physical pain when inflicted by an adult, there is only pain. And telling a child that they are unable, in any way, is an adult accepting that words have a value that is in and of itself, real, having forgotten that words are simply sounds collectively accepted to represent descriptions of this world.
So, you see, if the children do not know the words, then they cannot participate, and if they have accumulated  a self judgement of being a person who is lacking, then they want to hide this. Through elementary school and into middle school, they are so frustrated, the ones who don;t have a large vocabulary, and they keep trying again and again, and get frustrated and begin to push back, give up and get themselves into things that are not good for them, and do not give them the means to reach their full potential. How many of us have accepted less than what we really wanted? And how many of us later in life realize that is was not that difficult, we simply needed to walk building an understanding, and that this was learning the words, learning the means of how humans have accepted an abstract mode of communication, as the words we use to describe this world.
If you are interested in building your inner “ soft ware” of words, so that your inner communication skills are clear, so that you know the units of measure as how humans communicate what is here and how we feel, check out Techno-Tutor. It is fast, efficient and self empowering. Use your natural learning ability to pick up details, to take in forms, and build a foundation of words to be able to express yourself and build self trust so you never have to accept less than you really are and you never have to fear standing up and speaking. Become the best you can be. It is your birth right.
I mean, imagine a school, where all the children know their words.